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Thursday, July 12, 2007

Too Many Doin's A-Transpirin'

I took Tuesday off to watch C run a 5k roadrace. They have a race just prior to the annual fair and rodeo parade here (hey, it's bigtime excitement.) She ran extraordinarily well - a 33:22 for 3.1 miles. That's less than 10:30 mile pace, which is pretty well flying for a 7 year old kid. I'm awfully proud of her. It's neat enough that she's doing this kind of stuff, but she genuinely enjoys it.
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That afternoon, I went to retrieve something from the back of my pickup and saw our neighbor to the south going out to get his mail. I gave him the standard guy-greeting nod and he returned the same. I thought at the time that he was looking pretty rough - hey, it happens.

Last night, we looked out the window and saw 2 police cars and at least 7 other vehicles parked right in front of their house. More cars were pulling in all the time, some practically parking in our yard. Okay, that's a little strange. We went out to the garage to snoop, and there were a LOT of people standing in their driveway. hiccup snuck across the street to visit with some other neighbors and pump them for info.

Turns out, the neighbor guy had been having a REALLY rough time. I had felt for some time that he was really outspending his income. Then, there was the strange "wife moves out one day, girlfriend moves in the next day" weekend. He had a couple of his vehicles repossessed last month, and lost his partnership in the business he started 2 years ago.

He committed suicide at his shop sometime late Tuesday night/early Wednesday morning. I don't know much more than that, but things are really complicated.

We didn't really know him all that well. He seemed like a nice enough guy, but he had no money sense whatsoever and definitely had an affinity for weird relationship situations. He had a 7 or 8 year old son.

It's been a weird month, and Friday the 13th approaches. Be afraid.

4 Comments:

  • Holy carp! 8O

    Weightlifterguy is starting to look like JohnBoy Walton...

    Sorry to hear about this. Never good when anyone feels that desperate.

    Poor kid, too.

    Hang in there, all of you.

    But hey, great about C! Hugs to her!

    By Blogger Beanie, at Thu Jul 12, 10:06:00 PM  

  • dagum, what kind of men are being bred in your part of the world? Sighs... Interesting goings on. That is sad.

    A marathon running daughter? sounds cool.

    By Blogger Mermaid Melanie, at Mon Jul 16, 05:38:00 PM  

  • beanie - Things are now eerily calm around the house. We sat in the backyard for over an hour last evening basking in the relative silence. Weightlifterguy is now gone, he moved in with his girlfriend. The house on the other side is now vacant, and rumor has it that the landlord is trying to sell it. It's definitely not how I wanted to have a change in neighbors, but I'll take what I can get.

    Mel - I assure you, it's not just the men. Both of these neighbors had wives...and girlfriends...and....yeah. Weird.

    By Blogger ptooey, at Tue Jul 17, 08:40:00 AM  

  • Wow. Intense.

    Enjoy the calm. I hope there is no storm a-brewin'.

    And congrats to C! It's really cool that she runs!

    By Anonymous Anonymous, at Fri Jul 20, 11:45:00 PM  

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